Peaches and Roses

WHY AM I IN THIS RELATIONSHIP?  Today’s “ peaches and roses” is very important and salient.  So many people are in relationships that are pointless and  without directions. A relationship needs to be well defined and objective so as to ensure that both parties aren’t enervating themselves in an untenable relationship.  The goal and objectives of any relationship needs to be highlighted by the couples involved. Are they in the relationship because they want to: • Catch fun(I don’t encourage this) • Court and get married in the future • Help themselves financially  • Overcome loneliness • Overcome boredom • Peer pressure to build a relationship • Family pressures • Religious pressures • Societal pressures • Advancing Age • Have kids • Build a future together • Start a business together • They don’t have anyone else who’s Interested In them romantically • They possess low self esteem and the other partner thinks like them • They want...

How Do I Choose The Right Guy? (For Women Only) Today’s peaches and roses focuses on relationship choices. As woman(and beautiful woman) you will be faced with a myriad of choices and decisions. Anecdotally, I assume that a woman in a egalitarian society with a  population of over a 100 million, depending also on the environment, time and event, is most likely to be approached by 2 to 5(or more) men per day,  seeking any form of intimacy with her.  That’s a conflicting and ambivalent situation to be in, especially when most of those men are seeking romantic escapades and aren’t looking forward to anything serious.  This begs the lifelong question: How do I (women) choose the right guy? The following tips discussed lightly below, can be of help and they are as follows: 1: Watch out for any ambivalent attitude especially when it comes to the relationship: A guy giving you mixed feelings is not to be trusted to a very large extent. An ingenuous and honest guy with no Il...

Why Am I Still Single? Today, we’ll be discussing a salient issue which is applicable to every(or most) adult.  The peaches and roses we’ll be digesting is BEING SINGLE. Generally, humans are not built and do not enjoy living a life of a hermit. We value close relationships, family connections, filial embraces and religious gatherings. We are social animals. This elucidates the severity of depression and it’s subsequent dangers.  Money, in abundance cannot buy true friendship. Any relationship based and built upon money is facetious at best with both parties garishly trying to outdo themselves in a vain manner. I’m sure, just like me, you don’t want that for yourself. Personally, right now, I possess money in paucity so I can’t afford even to lavishly spoil any lady with material substances. Therefore, just like many in my situation, I’ve often cogitated about my single status. “ Why am I single? “ I’ve asked my head this ambivalent question. Personally, going to a so called “...