HOW DO I CHOOSE THE RIGHT GUY?(FOR WOMEN)

How Do I Choose The Right Guy? (For Women Only)

Today’s peaches and roses focuses on relationship choices. As woman(and beautiful woman) you will be faced with a myriad of choices and decisions. Anecdotally, I assume that a woman in a egalitarian society with a  population of over a 100 million, depending also on the environment, time and event, is most likely to be approached by 2 to 5(or more) men per day,  seeking any form of intimacy with her. 

That’s a conflicting and ambivalent situation to be in, especially when most of those men are seeking romantic escapades and aren’t looking forward to anything serious.  This begs the lifelong question: How do I (women) choose the right guy?

The following tips discussed lightly below, can be of help and they are as follows:

1: Watch out for any ambivalent attitude especially when it comes to the relationship: A guy giving you mixed feelings is not to be trusted to a very large extent. An ingenuous and honest guy with no Ill intentions, will be candid with you as regards his motives, views and plans with you. Trust me! Most, if not all, guys know what they want especially regarding the relationship. 

2: Follow your instincts: God, through the universe, placed an innate sixth sense in us that highly increases our sentient abilities and many a times warns us of any imminent danger. As such, in very precarious and complex situations like relationships, we must learn to sometimes guardedly trust and follow our instincts. 

3: Be direct, plain and candid in actions: Don’t give any mixed messages. Make your intentions known. Don’t play “hard to get” too much. Let your goals and objectives for the relationship be well defined and relayed to the guy. 

4: Is he apologetic and contrite when wrong? Run away from a guy that can’t say the magic word, “ I’m sorry”, whenever he errs or hurts you. It should a continuous effort and not a one-off thing. 

5: Do you guys have quite similar goals, plans, perceptions and worldview? This is very important. Yes, both of you mustn’t and cannot be 100% alike in every aspect of life but your similarities, likes and dislikes must be more common than less common. Don’t waste your time building something out of thin air. Don’t invest your time, energy and money on a fatuous and pointless relationship.

Those are my peaches and roses for today. Digest them sumptuously. Meditate on them cogitatively. Let their sweet words refresh your memory like the morning rose.